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Ostomy Fashion – Best Buys

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Many ostomates dress differently due to two things; fear of the bag showing and losing confidence. I asked some ostomates their favourite pieces of clothing to wear when dressing with a stoma, at an affordable price, as let’s face it – we aren’t made of money! (Picture above, I got my dress from SHEIN for £15!)

I admit, when I first became an ostomate back in 2015, it was summer and I had no clue what to wear (I was just 20 years young at that time.) I was fearful of my bag showing, my scars being visible and I lacked all that confidence I once had before I got severely  unwell. I am here to tell you that you CAN wear whatever you want or feel like wearing – whether you want your bag to be concealed or on show! There are two of my favourite ostomy wear companies that you can get briefs that hold your bag in place such as Vanilla Blush which focuses on being sexy at the same time, and for hernia support there is Comfizz which are more practical than sexy but work excellent!

If you are a new ostomate reading this, welcome! Here you will find some great buys from fellow ostomates and hope that this helps you. Feel free to get in touch should you need any more advice! It is a lot to take in, but take it day by day and relax, cus’ we got you covered in the clothing department <3.

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First up we have the lovely Amy also known as the IBDWarriorPrincess who is also my friend and a blogger for Comfizz! “My Style since getting a stoma has changed, but for the better. Now because I can maintain my weight and actually go out. I look forward to going clothes shopping and dressing in the clothes that I love! I swear by high waisted garments because they don’t restrict my ostomy or stop it from it’s normal functions. My favourite go-to outfit is a tight top and a skater skirt, especially on the days where my stoma is more active!” This Jumpsuit was just £12 from Newlook.

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Nicola also known as Beauty and The Bag, is not afraid to have her own sense of style with her ostomy! As a mum of 7 she looks fantastic! “I get pretty much all of my clothes from boohoo and absolutely love the styles I can create! I don’t dress around my stoma or try to hide it.. I wear whatever I feel good in and I like to look a little unique and stand out.”

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Lisa who has her own ostomy fashion instagram account lisakateostomate, sharing other ostomy fashion and bargain buys! Lisa has really struggled recently due to being on steroids to try and help her Chronic Illnesses with her weight, but doesn’t she look amazing! ” Always have shopped at primark, quiz and new look. My go to shops for my clothes and they’re all true to size. I’m usually a 12-14.” We think you look lovely whatever size you are Lisa.

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Jess is no stranger to an ostomy as this isn’t her first once after a failed J-Pouch! Jess finally got the chance to dress up for new year this year after being in hospital on and off for the past few months. This dress is from I Saw It First retailer at £25. She also has an instagram account that you can follow her – jessgoldstraw.

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Sandie loves her comfy trousers which she bought from TK Maxx at just £19.99! “I have made many purchases but I am so glad (more so) on the purchase of these trousers which got me through the first few weeks after surgery.” And I agree definitely a bargain buy!  You can follow Sandie on twitter – sandicookartist.

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Sophie who is a mother of one and is the face behind the ostomy clothing brand I Am Denim London models her own jeans here. Now these are on the higher range of ostomy wear so these do cost a little bit more. These jeans I would really recommend for those of you have a higher stoma! This includes men too! These are currently on sale at £75. Perfect for keeping you ostomy concealed if you are self conscious too (they have a waistband inside that is adapted so you can still empty your pouch without having to undress!)

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Last of all is my bargain buy! These ex Zara jeans I got on ebay for £6.99! I have a low stoma so these cause me no issues on rubbing on the stoma or when my bag fills up. They are super stretchy and soft. I have no issues having my stoma on show or hidden, however when wearing jumpsuits or dresses, I do wear my Vanilla Blush briefs to keep everything in place!  You can follow my instagram – glitterygutsx 

Let me know what your bargain buys are OR your favourite outfit with a stoma! Feel free to tag me on social media so I can share with the rest of my followers!

Thank You to the girls who participated in this blog piece, in hope to help new and old ostomates!

Awareness, Chronic Illness Blogs, Life With A Stoma, ostomy fashion

There Is More To Us Than Meets The Eye!

This is an incredible piece for Crohn’s and Colitis Awareness Week. Within the IBD community I wondered if anyone would like to show a selfie or photo of their stomach to represent the meaning of “there’s more to us than meets the eye.” You must be thinking “Alannah what on earth are you rambling on about?” Well, the reason I wanted and I am sharing this is to show non sufferers that just because a person who is suffering with an invisible illness looks “fine” on the outside, this isn’t the case on the inside. In fact, it is one of the biggest struggles IBD sufferers struggle with most. Our condition is not visible on the outside apart from past surgical scars, iron deficiencies causing discolouration under the eyes or the bloated stomachs we suffer (which people often mistaken women as pregnant, yes, it really does happen!)

The response I got was phenomenal! So many sufferers got in contact and shared their photo’s of their tummies, being such brave and inspirational warriors (if I do say so myself!) I want to share with non sufferers just how severe this condition can be, and so here is a little part about Inflammatory Bowel Disease: It is a life long illness that causes ulceration and inflammation of the digestive system, however both condition affects differently; Crohn’s Disease can affect anywhere from “gum to bum”, whereas Ulcerative Colitis only affects the large bowel and rectum. The awful symptoms that IBD patients suffer are: Diarrhoea, cramping and pain, fatigue, nausea and being sick, weight loss, mouth ulcers and anaemia. Where this doesn’t really sound like much in writing, in person it can be absolutely devastating to go through. There are also other things that come along side IBD such as fistulas which is an abnormal passage that grows between the bowel (or where the disease is present) to another organ in the body or to the surface of the skin. It can also cause eye inflammation, arthritis, constipation, slowing in healing, hair loss, dehydration, infections, bone thinning and mental health conditions.

Many people who suffer from IBD go through treatments to control the disease and the side affects of that can also be truly terrible, the biggest being infection. Those who have suffered infection can develop Sepsis which is infection going into the blood stream which can lead to a matter of life and death, resulting in having to have surgery for a stoma in cases where antibiotics don’t work. Many go through multiple types of medications that simply just don’t work and the condition doesn’t get any better where surgery is the only option left. Some people find that after having parts of their bowel removed or have a stoma formed that they regain their life again and can move on and live a “normal” life. There are also many just like me where that just doesn’t happen and we still are unwell and can develop the disease else where.

None the less, we all do our best to remain positive and stay in high spirit! I must remind you that we do have down days and that’s OK. Mental health is closely linked to IBD and it can be a serious challenge to deal with both. Anxiety and Depression are most common however other mental health conditions can arise too. It’s important than when you know someone with mental health conditions that even the happiest of people can suffer in silence, and so, it’s so important to help someone when you know something isn’t right. The best medicine for those who suffer is support, love and laughter (if you are an IBD sufferer then you know we wish this was an option!)

Now the best part of the blog! Are you ready?! I certainly am! The beautiful and brave people shared their photo’s to help raise awareness and little did I know whilst we were all sharing, it was also helping people gain confidence and acceptance with their scars, stoma bags and health conditions! That was the best part for me; helping those gain confidence again. One lady in particular thanked me for helping her do this and another had shared that in 13 years she had never shown her stomach to anyone until yesterday and also thanked me for giving her courage! To me this is extremely rewarding and being honest all the photo’s and responses has completely melted my heart and I am so glad and proud of helping other sufferers achieve something so great in life.

I hope you look forward to seeing the photo’s and those who took part enjoy them too!

For those who are struggling with self confidence, I hope that all of us who have shared our tummy selfies have helped you! Thankyou so much to all who took part! 💜

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Bellies Clothes Donate Or Swap

Hi there! I have a great Facebook Group to share with you all that could benefit those with IBD!

“Bellies Clothes Donate Or Swap” is a Facebook group founded by Crohn’s sufferer, Brenda Meakin to help sufferers in the community donate or swap clothes/items they no longer want! I am a member of this amazing group and a very well known group called #GetYourBellyOut which is an online support group to help those who suffer themselves or family and friends who know of someone who suffers. This inspired Brenda to do something great out of a terrible illness, in which it makes us come together as one. There has been so many lovely items donated and we are all truly so grateful to one another having received such nice things, which make us feel great and boost our confidence! There truly is no better feeling than having a new pair of trousers to wear, as many of us simply cannot afford to buy brand new. I myself have had many nice items from members in the group and love them! I also put up items regularly into the group which has helped other members.

The group is run by Brenda and head admin, Sarah Young which works incredibly well! Hats off to these ladies for creating something so great for all of us who suffer, it takes time and patience to run a group and being online sometimes takes it out of us. IBD really has some lows but the highs are so remarkable. The generosity from each individual really shows that these illnesses really do affect the most kind hearted people. We are always looking for new members to join and anyone is welcome! Brenda and Sarah hope to have many more members join and cannot express enough how much the #GetYourBellyOut campaign has not only been an inspiration but a huge support too, in which we have all made friends for life. One thing for certain is that no matter how hard times may be, that we will always have someone at the other end of the phone or in online support groups.

To join the “Bellies Clothes Donate or Swap, please click here.

It really is the littlest things that go a long way, which make so much difference to a sufferers day!

-Alannah